Red Flags You Should Have Seen (So Don’t Miss Them Again)
Everyone's been there. You're dating a mess, only it takes you longer to see it than EVERYBODY else. Well, here are the most common red flags to watch for and don't be fooled by again:
- They never apologize
- They never take responsibility for their bad behavior
- Frequently using ultimatums
- They don't like you to hang out with your friends
- They have no hobbies or interests other than hanging out with you (it's flattering at first but gets old fast)
- Their mother controls their life and ambitions
- Exaggerating how they feel about something
- Not taking your feelings seriously
- They call all of their exes "crazy" -- maybe they're the crazy one
- You get kind of bored around them when nothing romantic is happening
- If all your relationships have the same problem, then you have the red flags
- Anything that makes you think, "I hope they grow out of that," or "I'll have to help them change that once we're married"
- In every situation they're always the victim or someone is being mean to them
- They're constantly suspicious (or accusing you) of cheating
- Lying about unimportant things
- Always feeling sorry for themselves
- They don't respect when something's important to you
- Vengeful
- They act possessive (in an unnecessary way, not a cute way)
- Frequently talking about their ex
- He doesn't have any guy friends or she doesn't have any girlfriends
- Women who love horses
- Sex is a reward and withheld as a punishment
- They text you constantly
[SOURCE: REDDIT]